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This is where I will place other peoples ideas, thoughts and comments. If you would like to include your input please fill out the form at Your thoughts Count.

From Wendy: Lots to make a person think. It will take a few visits to get the most from your site.

From JUNE: comment on "There are people so poor that the only thing they have is money." I wanted to know who said that, and stumbled over your site...sorry.It doesn't mean all rich people are cocky, it's about those rich people who only care about money and not about anything else.Seriously, being rich isn't EVERYTHING. You should care about more important things. And, yes, you CAN be too rich. I really liked what you wrote about "sharing your love" though!

From Joosun: Recently I asked myself (for the millionth time) what I wanted to be in 5 years. I was trying to self-motivate. Then for some reason I asked myself (for the first time) what I wanted to be in 75 years.
The answers I found formed a new foundation for how I approach life. In short, I stopped caring about things that didn't matter (career, money, fame, looks, possessions) and realized that all that mattered were relationships.
I do not want to be alone in a home for oldsters. I want to have lots of friends and family when I am nearing 100, and most of all I want to be the type of oldster who has lots to give (wisdom, love, hope, joy) to the younger ones (children, grandchildren, random children).
So I have begun traveling with my soulmate whom I was lucky enough to have already found (soon to be engaged), making new friends, putting student loans on unemployment deferment, and forging ahead in a new life free of the constraints that society has tried for years to shackle me with.
Thus I was pleasantly surprised when I stumbled upon this website and found a man similar to one I hope to be one day sharing with me his life. I want to thank you so much for the store of wisdom, love, hope, and joy you are sharing with the world. Even if I don't agree exactly with everything you have written here, it was greatly encouraging just to read your words.

Ray's Comment: There are few people who even look the 5 years. It is great that you have taken a life view.

Here is a question from Ogbonnia,  Does your educational back ground qualify your success?

Rays Comment: Although a good education is nice to have, it does not affect your success as much as most people believe. If you do a search on the internet for successful people who did not complete their education you will see that it is quite an impressive list. A formal education is only needed if you want a job. What is more important is your passion to succeed, the ability to think beyond the normal and good communication. As long as you can read and write then you can learn whatever you need to succeed. Most of our education does not come from schooling, it comes from living. Your education should never stop, be interested in life and other people they will teach you everything you need to know.

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